He then got mad and accused me of not loving him, said I was selfish, said he didn't want me to transfer to state college because I was trying to leave him behind.
He told me that I cared more about college and work then him I want to get a place to live get my degree and have a real job. Yeah I agree with you college is expensive you don't need someone taking your money and wasting your time cleaning their room college is time consuming enough. Guys at 19, are still really immature most of the time Maybe my mind will change about dating younger guys when I will hit my 30's but not when I'm in my early 20's! I almost exclusively date younger. Not sure why the relationships seem to work better than the ones with men my age or older.
I don't really care for dating younger guys. I can be persuaded a year younger, but anything younger than that, especially at this age, is going to take a lot of convincing. I won't say absolutely no, but I will say it's highly unlikely. It's a maturity barrier as well as a mental barrier. But that's no reason you shouldn't give it a shot! I've been out on my own for a while, moved to a few different states and out of the country.
I know how to save money, budget, and overall have more life experience. So for me to go younger they would need to be very mature and responsible for me to even consider it. A guy at that age would be going to College, be at the age to go clubbing and drinking, who knows what other fine lady he may come across? Yeah I don't like clubbing and wouldent feel comfortable dating multiple women. Maybe my mother let me watch disney to much? Well good on you: Need to meet more young men like you lol. The ones I've met just like to play the field.
How old are you if you don't mind answering? But as long as they're not immature and still 'playing the field'. I think any woman wouldn't mind a guy younger than them.
It would be just as okay as dating someone who is 2 years older. As long as neither person is legally a minor and it is legal for both to date then there should be. There are so many reasons to date a dude a few years younger, including: Maybe you want to sleep in until 2 p.m. on a lazy Sunday, but he.
Its the connection, the attraction and the chemistry that matters. I personally prefer men a little older. If we really, truly connected, maybe, but I don't see myself with a younger man. It could for you, I just stated my personal preference. Whatever's meant to happen will happen, so if you truly belong with a sexy older woman, you'll get her. No, I prefer dating men years older instead. Plus I'm 17, I would find it weird in my opinion to be dating a guy who is 14 or Maybe my mind set will change as I get older, it tends to do that all the time.
I was with a guy who was 16 when I was I felt awkward and a little creepy. I won't be doing that again.
But I wouldn't care if a guy was a few months younger than me or whatever. Just so long as at some point we are the same age. Age isn't the most important thing to me, I like mature people and being older does not mecessarily mean that you're more mature. I'm turning 24 this year and I'd consider dating a guy who was turning 22 this year. For me age doesn't matter. If a man is hot, funny, great personality, tall then I'm going for it. I would be 40 and date a 19 year old lol. They would have to be extremely mature for their age.. I'm twenty and I date guys who are normally 23 or I think I wouldn't, I've tried before and it just doesn't work..
Yes it certainly would I think its kind of different dating a younger man when your in the teen years in my opinion thanks for your answer and ill try not to. Depends on how old I am. Right now at 18 no way. At 25, maybe a year or two if he's mature.
You wouldent give him a chance? No I wouldn't be attracted to him. Trust me, I know. The most we could ever be would be friends.
One of my best friends is a guy a few months younger than me and he's basically everything you described. And he likes me a lot but I just don't see myself with him cause he's younger. Truust me, that's a rare occurance. Baaad idea to be honest. Rather date a few years older.
Oh sorry just read the description before I just answered the original question, obviously I'm not the age you're looking for, but yeah my opinion still stands. You're a year younger than me and I still don't think I could. Yes I would date a guy who is years younger. There are some nice, mature, good looking younger guys out there. I am in a similar situation actually, I am older and I like a 19 year old guy.
No unless I was really attracted to a guy. I get asked out a lot by younger guys because I look 18 when I am It always make me feel like I am a perv because they are so young and barely legal. Maybe if I was 30 and a guy was 27, maybe. However, usually at the age of 20 - 25, it depends on the girls.
Most girls I know are not really to set down and it just really depends. If you are really serious about wanting to date a certain girl, I would really recommend being her friend first because she will either know you are serious and will date you anyways you are also have to realize at that age, you have friends who judge your decision and we are not that strong from their opinion or two, keep in touch as acquaintances and he can find girls who are at your age.
Later, when people are more mature, it is easier to date when you have perspective. I'm 16 and perfer older guys or at least guys my age but I guess I would try to date someone younger if I liked them cause to me age is just a number! Yeah that's understandable at 16 when your already more mature than guys your age why should you go Omg yes I would totally date a younger guy. There's some pretty good looking younger guys out there. I'm 20 soon to be 21 and I've been crushing on a guy who's He's funny, cool, great personality, and OMG he's fine as hell ; I'd like to date him one day I could care less how old he is, not like he's 12 lol.
I'm 21 and my boyfriend s literally 6 months older then me. And that's the smallest the age gap has ever been with a boyfriend in my life. Although you may be ready to walk down the aisle, it can be hard to get a younger man to put a ring on it.
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